The Asset Gap: The Silent Threat to Your Exit Plan

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC (Excepts from John Brown’s “The Definitive Guide To Addressing The Asset Gap. (Thank you John)

Why the number in your head may have nothing to do with the number you actually need — and how to find out before it’s too late to fix.

The Asset Gap: The Silent Threat to Your Exit Plan

Most business owners believe they know two numbers cold: what their business is worth, and what they’ll need to live on once they sell it. Those two beliefs quietly shape every decision an owner makes about timing an exit, negotiating a deal, and walking away with peace of mind. The uncomfortable truth is that for the vast majority of owners, at least one of those numbers is wrong — and the gap between belief and reality has a name: the Asset Gap.

What Is an Asset Gap, Really?

The Asset Gap is simply the difference between what a business owner currently has and what that owner actually needs to exit the business on his or her own terms. It sounds like a straightforward math problem. In practice, almost no owner has done the math.

Every real Gap Analysis asks five questions:

  • Is your financial security goal accurate, or unrealistically low?
  • Have you accurately quantified the resources available to you today?
  • Do you have an Asset Gap — a shortfall between what you have and what you need?
  • How big is that gap?
  • What must you do to close it?

Here is the number that should stop every owner in their tracks: only 18% of business owners have ever discussed their exit with an Exit Planning Advisor. The other 82% are running their most important financial decision on assumptions, sentiment, and hope — often until it is too late to do anything about it.

The Misperception Spell

John H. Brown, founder of the Business Enterprise Institute, gave this problem a name: the Misperception Spell. It describes what happens when the information an owner is using to plan an exit is vastly different from the facts. Six assumptions feed the spell most often:

  • The amount of income they’ll need after they exit
  • How long they and their spouse will live
  • The rate of return they expect on invested assets
  • The value they assign to their company
  • The growth rate they predict for value and cash flow
  • The net proceeds they expect from a sale

The Misperception Spell isn’t a character flaw — it’s just what happens when nobody has run the numbers.

Francis: A Gap Analysis in Action

Consider Francis, a business owner who was confident he had no Asset Gap at all. When his numbers were finally tested against the facts, the picture changed dramatically.

What Francis TrackedHis AssumptionThe Facts (After Gap Analysis)
Business value$1.5 million$1 million (appraised, pre-tax)
Post-exit income needed$120,000 / year$200,000 / year (pre-tax)
Years of retirement funded25 years33 years (life expectancy)
Withdrawal / return rate7%4%
Investable assets needed~$2 million$4.5–5 million

The result: a real Asset Gap of $2 to $3 million — not the $0 gap Francis believed he had. Every one of his assumptions was reasonable. Every one of them was also incomplete or optimistic in a way that, left unchecked, would have surfaced only after he could no longer fix it.

The Asset Gap as a Map

Every client’s journey toward a successful exit has four elements, and they answer four simple questions: Where are you? Where are you going? What’s the distance? How do you get there?

  • A Starting Point — business value (after tax), non-business investments, and expected Social Security.
  • A Destination — the investable assets needed, based on life expectancy and spending needs.
  • The Distance — the dollar gap between what an owner has today and what the goal requires.
  • The Map — a step-by-step plan, built with the owner’s Advisor Team, to close the gap by the exit date.

A Small Investment Buys Real Facts

Francis’s full Gap Analysis — a business appraisal, a CPA review, and a financial planning assessment — cost him $5,000. Professional valuations of this kind typically run $5,000 to $10,000: a modest price next to the cost of building an entire Exit Plan on guesses.

A real Gap Analysis pays off in five ways. It:

  • Clears misperceptions before they sabotage the Exit Plan
  • Keeps owners in control of their business and their timeline
  • Replaces assumptions with facts the whole Advisor Team can use
  • Puts the upfront cost in context against the far greater cost of guessing wrong
  • Motivates owners to act sooner, while there is still time to close the gap

Be the Exception

Most owners discover the true size of their Asset Gap only when they are ready to exit — the one moment when it is hardest, and sometimes impossible, to do anything about it. You do not have to be one of them.

Review the five Gap Analysis questions early, and revisit them often. Replace sentiment and hope with facts from a real Advisor Team. Give yourself the best chance to exit when you want, for the money you need, to the person you choose.

Ready to Find Your Number?

If you have never had your own Asset Gap quantified, now is the time — not the year you plan to walk away. Take the three-minute Business Owner Viewpoint Survey to get your own “Where You Are” report, or reach out directly to start a conversation about your Gap Analysis.

Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

President & Founder, New England Consulting Group of Guilford, Inc.

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Source contribution: John Brown and the Business Enterprise Institute, Exit Planning Series.

Why So Many Business Owners Outgrow Their 401(k)—But Never Build the Retirement They Deserve

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

If you’ve built a successful business, you’ve already accomplished something most people never will.

You’ve taken risks, created jobs, served customers, and built something of real value.

Yet there’s one question that quietly follows many successful business owners throughout their careers:

Will my business be enough to fund my retirement?”

For many owners, the uncomfortable answer is, “I hope so.”

The Hidden Retirement Problem

Business owners think differently than employees. When extra cash is available, it usually goes right back into the business.

  • Hiring another employee.
  • Purchasing equipment.
  • Expanding operations.
  • Investing in marketing.
  • Solving the next challenge.

The business always seems to come first.

Over time, something surprising happens. The business becomes the retirement plan.

On paper, many owners appear wealthy because most of their net worth is tied up inside their company. But when it’s time to retire, they discover they haven’t created enough wealth outside of the business to support the lifestyle they’ve worked so hard to achieve.

That’s a risky position to be in.

Your Business Is an Asset—Not a Retirement Plan

Many owners assume they’ll simply sell the business one day and retire comfortably.

Unfortunately, life doesn’t always cooperate.

Markets change. Buyers disappear. Industries evolve. Health issues arise. Family circumstances shift.

A business that looks valuable today may not sell for what you expect tomorrow.

Even if it does sell, taxes, transaction costs, and changing market conditions can significantly reduce the amount you actually keep.

Putting your entire retirement future on one asset—even one you built yourself—is concentration risk.

The wealthiest business owners understand that retirement security comes from diversification, not hope.

Cash Flow Is the Real Challenge

Most owners don’t ignore retirement because they don’t care.

They ignore it because cash flow always seems to demand attention somewhere else.

There is payroll to meet.

Taxes to pay.

Inventory to purchase.

Unexpected expenses.

Growth opportunities.

Retirement planning becomes something they’ll “get to next year.”

Then next year becomes five years.

Five years becomes ten.

Before long, retirement is much closer than anyone expected.

Clarity Changes Everything

The biggest obstacle isn’t a lack of income.

It’s a lack of clarity.

Most business owners have never been shown a strategy that allows them to continue investing in their business while intentionally creating personal retirement wealth outside of it.

Once they understand how to redirect cash flow efficiently, retirement planning becomes less about sacrifice and more about strategy.

That’s when real confidence begins.

Introducing the GWT System

Our firm developed the GWT System® (Grow Wealth Transition) because we repeatedly saw successful business owners facing the same challenge.

They were building exceptional businesses—but not building enough personal retirement wealth.

The GWT System is designed to help business owners:

  • Create a clear retirement roadmap.
  • Build wealth outside the business.
  • Use tax-efficient executive compensation strategies.
  • Reduce dependence on selling the business for retirement.
  • Gain confidence that their personal financial future is as strong as the company they’ve built.

The goal isn’t to replace your business.

The goal is to ensure your business supports your retirement instead of becoming your only retirement plan.

You Deserve More Than Hope

You didn’t build your business by hoping things would work out.

You built it with planning, discipline, and smart decisions.

Your retirement deserves the same attention.

Imagine reaching retirement knowing your lifestyle doesn’t depend on the timing of a business sale or the state of the economy.

Imagine knowing your personal wealth is growing alongside your business.

Imagine having choices instead of uncertainty.

That’s what financial clarity creates.

The Next Step

If you’ve spent years building your business, now is the time to begin building the retirement you’ve earned.

The earlier you create a strategy, the more options you have.

The GWT System helps business owners turn today’s success into tomorrow’s financial independence—so retirement becomes a destination you can look forward to with confidence, not uncertainty.

Because after a lifetime of building your business, you deserve a retirement built with the same level of purpose.

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What Buyers Are Really Buying

WHITE PAPER

Building Business Value Before You Sell:

Why a Stable, Motivated Management Team Is Your Most Powerful Value Driver

By: Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

New England Consulting Group of Guilford, Inc.

Business Consultants of New England

Part of the GWT Planning System™  ·  Transition Planning Series

Executive Summary[i]

When a buyer evaluates your business, they look far beyond your balance sheet. They are buying your future earnings — and they will pay a premium price only if they believe those earnings are protected, sustainable, and not dependent on you alone.

The single most important factor in commanding a top-dollar sale price is a stable, motivated management team supported by a high-performing workforce. Without it, no other value driver can fully compensate. With it, every other aspect of your business becomes more credible, more transferable, and more valuable.

Prior to a sale, you must create value within the business and then conduct a sale process that compels the buyer to pay top dollar for it. The time to act is now — not when you are ready to sell.

What Buyers Are Really Buying

In the Merger & Acquisition marketplace, your company will undergo intense buyer scrutiny. Buyers look at more than EBITDA; they look for attributes they believe reduce risk and increase return. In short, the business must have a good story — in both past and future tenses.

These attributes are called Value Drivers. They are the qualities that cause buyers to pay a premium price for a business. The absence of Value Drivers can mean that your business has no value to a third-party buyer at all.

The primary Value Drivers a buyer evaluates include:

  • Stable, motivated management and a high-performing workforce
  • Systems that sustain the growth of the business
  • Established and diversified customer base
  • Appearance of the business facility consistent with asking price
  • Realistic growth strategies
  • Effective and documented financial controls
  • Growth in cash flow, profitability, revenue and sales
  • Presence in an attractive business sector
  • The existence of protected proprietary technology

Note that Value Drivers do more than increase the amount of cash in your pocket at closing. They also increase the marketability — or sale ability — of your business. For example, if you lack a capable management team, many buyers will have no interest in your company regardless of your financial performance.

Value DriverWhy It Matters to Buyers
Stable, Motivated Management TeamFoundational — enables all other value drivers
High-Performing WorkforceEnsures continuity of production and service
Systems That Sustain GrowthScalable operations reduce owner dependency
Established & Diversified Customer BaseReduces revenue concentration risk
Realistic Growth StrategiesDemonstrates future earnings potential
Effective Financial ControlsSignals reliability and credibility to buyers
Growth in Cash Flow & ProfitabilityDirectly influences EBITDA multiples
Protected Proprietary TechnologyCreates competitive moat and premium pricing

The Premier Value Driver: Your Management Team

Of all the Value Drivers, the stable, motivated management team stands first among equals. This is the chapter’s central thesis, and it is worth understanding why.

None of the other Value Drivers can be achieved through your efforts alone. It takes a team — a strong management team — to accomplish all of them. As any sophisticated buyer understands, the absence of a management team signals that other vital aspects of the business are also deficient.

Buyers want to know two things about your management team:

  • Does the team extend beyond the owner?
  • Will that team stay when the owner leaves?

If you cannot answer yes to both questions, you have significant work to do before you approach the market.

“If no one came to work tomorrow, what would the company produce?” — Paula Cope, Business Consultant. The answer is nothing. Your workforce is not a cost center; it is your primary production asset.

What a Management Team Actually Does

Your management team includes the people responsible for:

  • Setting and implementing the company’s strategic direction
  • Aligning strategic objectives with the company’s mission and vision
  • Monitoring and controlling high-level activities within the business plan
  • Motivating and supervising other employees

In many small businesses, this “team” is one person: the owner. To build a championship organization — and to command a championship sale price — the management team must include people with a variety of complementary skills. A football team with a star quarterback who lacks supporting players cannot win a season. The same principle applies to your business.

Key Employee Incentive Plans: The Retention Strategy

Building a strong management team is only half the challenge. Keeping them is the other. This is where Key Employee Incentive Plans become essential tools for every business owner planning an eventual exit.

Short-Term Plans: The Stay Bonus

A Stay Bonus is a straightforward but powerful tool designed to retain key employees through a specific event — most commonly a business sale or ownership transition. The structure is simple: the employee receives a defined bonus if they remain with the company through a specified date or event.

Stay Bonuses serve multiple strategic purposes:

  • They signal to key employees that they are valued and critical to the transition
  • They protect the buyer’s investment by ensuring continuity of the team they are acquiring
  • They provide the seller with leverage to maintain workforce stability during the sale process

For the business owner, the cost of a Stay Bonus is almost always recaptured in the form of a higher purchase price. A buyer who knows the management team is secured through transition will pay more for that certainty.

Long-Term Plans: Non-Qualified Deferred Compensation

For owners who want to retain key employees over the long term and build meaningful financial incentives tied to business performance, Non-Qualified Deferred Compensation (NQDC) plans offer significant flexibility.

Unlike qualified retirement plans, NQDC plans are not subject to ERISA contribution limits or nondiscrimination rules. This means you can:

  • Design customized compensation packages for specific key employees
  • Defer compensation to reduce current payroll tax obligations
  • Tie vesting schedules to tenure or performance milestones
  • Create a golden handcuff that makes it financially costly for key people to leave

When structured properly, these plans do not appear on your balance sheet as funded liabilities, while still creating a compelling retention incentive for the people most critical to your business’s continued success.

EBITDA, Multiples, and Why Management Matters to the Math

Buyers in the lower middle market typically value businesses using an EBITDA multiple. The multiple they apply — which might range from 3x to 8x or more depending on industry and size — is not arbitrary. It reflects their assessment of risk.

A business that is owner-dependent receives a lower multiple because the buyer perceives that the business may not survive the owner’s departure. A business with a stable, documented management team receives a higher multiple because continuity is de-risked.

ScenarioEBITDAIllustrative Value
Owner-dependent (4x multiple)$500,000$2,000,000
Strong management team (6x multiple)$500,000$3,000,000

Same EBITDA. A $1,000,000 difference in business value — driven entirely by management team quality.

The Action Plan: What to Do Before You Are Ready to Sell

The business owner who begins building Value Drivers three to five years before an anticipated exit will always receive a higher price than one who waits until they are emotionally ready to leave. Here is the framework we recommend:

Step 1: Identify Your Key People

Who in your organization is essential to your continued success? Who would a buyer insist stays through and after the transition? These are your key people, and they require a deliberate retention strategy.

Step 2: Design the Right Incentive Structure

Not all key employees are motivated by the same rewards. Some are driven by equity participation; others by guaranteed income; others by long-term deferred compensation. The right plan depends on the individual, the timeline, and the tax implications for both parties.

Step 3: Document Your Management Processes

A management team is only as valuable as the systems it operates. Buyers look for documented processes, defined accountability, and evidence that the business can run without you. Org charts, operating manuals, and performance management systems all contribute to business value.

Step 4: Coordinate with Your Advisory Team

The most effective pre-sale value building happens when your financial planner, HR consultant, compensation specialist, and business strategist are working from the same playbook. This is precisely why Business Consultants of New England was formed.

The GWT Planning System addresses three threats to every business owner’s financial future: Overpaying Taxes, Wealth Erosion, and Business Transition Failure. Building a motivated management team is a direct intervention against the third threat.

About the Author & Business Consultants of New England

Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC is the Founder and Principal of New England Consulting Group of Guilford, Inc., with over 55 years of experience serving business owners in Connecticut and New England. He specializes in advanced plan ning strategies including the GWT Planning System, business succession and exit planning, executive compensation, and wealth transfer.

Business Consultants of New England is a collaborative alliance of five independent specialists united around a single purpose: helping business owners grow, protect, and transition their businesses with confidence.

 

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[i] Ref:  Cash Out Move On – John H. Brown publication This white paper draws on Chapter 6 of Cash Out — Move On to explain the concept of Value Drivers, why a strong management team is the foundation of business value, and what business owners with 5 to 50 employees can do — starting today — to build that value before they are ready to sell.

Your Best Employee Is Being Recruited Right Now — And You May Not Even Know It.

BY: Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

Employee retention strategies are important and losing a key person isn’t just an inconvenience. When you factor in recruiting, training, lost relationships, and lost revenue, it can cost well into six figures. So, what’s the solution?

Phantom equity or ghost stock! A great tax strategy!

In this video, I break down exactly how phantom equity (also called phantom stock or ghost stock) works — and why it may be the most powerful retention tool available to closely held business owners today.

This video explains the “Phantom Stock Golden Handcuff” plan, a strategy for businesses to retain top talent without giving up equity. Learn how this plan, which involves a written agreement where key employees receive “phantom” shares, can significantly boost staff retention. We detail how the plan works, its benefitsas an employee benefits package, and its tax treatment within human resources strategies.

✅ What you’ll learn:

  • What phantom equity actually is — and what it isn’t
  • How hypothetical shares are granted, valued, and paid out in cash
  • Full Value vs. Appreciation Only — which design is right for your situation
  • How taxation works at distribution — for you AND your key employee
  • How to informally fund the obligation using tax-efficient financial instruments
  • Why this tool protects your ownership, preserves your control, and is.   fully deductible

No ownership given up. No ERISA compliance headaches. No complicated legal structure. Just a simple, flexible, written agreement that aligns your key person’s financial future with the growth of your business.

If you’re a business owner with 5 to 50 employees and you rely on key people

to drive your success — this video is for you.

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Four Pillars of a Strong Business: Growth, Protection, Transition, Equity

Are You Building Your Business by Design… or by Luck?

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

Most small business owners don’t start their journey with a lack of ambition. They work hard, grow steadily, and pour everything into their company. But at some point, an uncomfortable question surfaces:

Is my business growth intentional… or is it just happening?

If you’re like many owners, you’re fully absorbed in the daily demands of running your business. And while revenue may be increasing, key areas—financial planning, protection strategies, and long-term transition—often go overlooked.

That’s where risk quietly builds.

The Hidden Gaps in Growing Businesses

Many business owners are aware—sometimes painfully aware—that critical elements are being neglected. Not because they don’t care, but because they simply don’t have the time, clarity, or structure to address them.

These gaps often include:

  • No clear long-term growth strategy
  • Limited protection against unexpected events
  • Inefficient tax planning
  • No defined exit or succession plan
  • Uncertainty about how to turn business success into personal financial security

Without addressing these, even a successful business can become fragile.

The Questions Every Business Owner Should Ask

Take a moment to consider:

  • Do you have a clear, fail-safe plan to grow, protect, and eventually transition your business?
  • If you had to step away tomorrow—due to retirement, disability, or worse—what would happen?
  • Could you extract your business value in the most tax-efficient way possible?
  • Are you maximizing your compensation and benefits through your business?
  • Do you have a plan for the unexpected—economic downturns, key employee loss, or sudden life events?

If any of these questions are difficult to answer, you’re not alone—but it’s a sign that planning is overdue.

From Uncertainty to a “Destiny Plan”

What many business owners need isn’t more complexity—it’s clarity.

A structured approach—often referred to as a “Destiny Plan”—focuses on aligning your business with your ideal life and financial future. It brings together the key elements that drive long-term success and security into one cohesive strategy.

At its core, this approach focuses on four essential pillars:

1. Growth: Building with Purpose

Growth should be intentional, not accidental. That means:

  • Implementing systems that scale
  • Developing strong leadership and teams
  • Focusing on the true drivers of business value

 

2. Protection: Preparing for the “What Ifs”

Every business faces risk. The question is whether you’re prepared.

  • What if a key employee leaves?
  • What if cash flow tightens?
  • What if you can’t continue running the business?

Proper protection planning ensures your business can withstand the unexpected.

 

3. Equity: Turning Success into Wealth

Your business is likely your largest asset—but are you leveraging it effectively?

  • Accessing equity without unnecessary tax burdens
  • Structuring compensation to maximize benefits
  • Building wealth both inside and outside the business

The goal is not just to grow a business—but to create real, usable wealth.

 

4. Transition: Planning Your Exit Before You Need It

Every business owner will eventually leave their business. The only question is how.

  • Will it be on your terms?
  • Will you receive full value?
  • Is your family or team prepared?

A well-designed transition plan ensures you can exit smoothly, efficiently, and profitably—whether that’s through sale, succession, or retirement.

 

A Simple First Step

You don’t need to solve everything today—but you do need to start.

Even a quick self-assessment can reveal where your biggest opportunities lie. Small adjustments in the right areas can lead to significant improvements in both business performance and personal financial outcomes.

Final Thought

Your business should serve your life—not the other way around.

With the right planning, you can move from uncertainty to clarity… from reactive decisions to intentional strategy… and from building a business to building a legacy.

The question is:

Are you ready to start designing your future—on purpose?

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Performance Management for Small Businesses: 5 Things Every Owner Needs to Know

From the Building and Protecting Your Business Worth Broadcast | Guest: Ken Somers

By: Thomas J. Perrone, CLU,CIC

Running a small business means wearing every hat — but one role too many owners neglect is that of a true people manager. On a recent episode of the Building and Protecting Your Business Worth Broadcast, hosted by Thomas J. Perrone of New England Consulting Group of Guilford, guest Ken Somers broke down five critical areas where small businesses can’t afford to fall behind.

1. Performance Management Isn’t Just for Big Companies

Even the smallest teams need structure around performance. Without clear expectations, feedback loops, and accountability, small businesses often lose their best people — or keep their worst ones too long. Performance management doesn’t have to be bureaucratic. Done right, it creates clarity, motivation, and a culture where people actually want to show up and do their best work.

2. Management Succession: Plan Before You Have To

Most small business owners have never thought about what happens if they step away — suddenly or by choice. A basic management succession plan doesn’t require an HR department. It starts with identifying who on your team could step up, what gaps exist, and how you’d develop them over time. Waiting until a crisis hits is the most expensive way to learn this lesson.

3. Rising Healthcare Costs? There Are Smarter Options

Medical insurance is one of the fastest-growing costs for small business owners, and many are still using outdated group plan structures. Two alternatives worth exploring: ICHRA (Individual Coverage Health Reimbursement Arrangement) and QSEHRA (Qualified Small Employer HRA). Both allow employers to reimburse employees for individual health insurance, giving owners cost control and employees more flexibility — without the volatility of traditional group premiums.

4. Every Leader Needs a Coach

Small business owners tend to go it alone. But the most effective leaders — at every level — have coaches. Whether it’s a business coach, executive coach, or peer advisory group, outside perspective helps leaders see blind spots, make better decisions faster, and avoid the isolation that comes with being at the top. If you want your leadership team to grow, coaching isn’t a luxury — it’s infrastructure.

5. Culture: Why It Matters More Than You Think

Culture in a small business isn’t a ping-pong table or a mission statement on the wall. It’s the set of unwritten rules that determine how your team behaves when you’re not in the room. A strong culture attracts better talent, reduces turnover, and makes your business more resilient. Ignoring it doesn’t mean you don’t have one — it just means someone else is defining it for you.

Questions or comments from the broadcast? Reach out to Thomas J. Perrone directly at tperrone@necgginc.com. His book, “Unlocking Your Business’ DNA,” is available on Amazon in paperback and Kindle — with profits going to Veteran Groups.

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Solving the Hidden People Problems That Stall Your Business

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU,CIC

From the Building and Protecting Your Business Worth Broadcast | Guest: Nancy Jonker, PhD

Most business owners are great at strategy. Where they get stuck? People. The persistent, uncomfortable, often-avoided challenges that quietly drain productivity, erode partnerships, and eat into the bottom line.

That’s exactly what Dr. Nancy Jonker, Business Consulting Psychologist and Executive Coach at DaptaWise, helps leaders untangle.

When Strategy Is Actually a People Problem in Disguise

One of the most common traps business owners fall into is diagnosing a people challenge as a strategy or execution issue. When results aren’t coming in, it’s tempting to tweak the plan — but often, the real friction lives in how people are communicating, collaborating (or not), and responding to change.

Nancy specializes in uncovering these hidden dynamics using tools like AQai adaptability assessments, Kolbe, and Systemic Team Coaching to get beneath the surface fast.

The Real Cost of Avoiding Hard Conversations

Silence is expensive. When leaders sidestep difficult conversations — with partners, team members, or direct reports — those gaps compound over time. Misalignment grows, resentment builds, and talented people disengage. By the time it shows up in the numbers, the damage is already done.

The good news: there’s almost always a clear path forward, even when a situation feels hopeless at first.

You Shouldn’t Have to Figure This Out Alone

Many owners believe they should be able to resolve people problems themselves. But just as you’d call a financial advisor for complex tax strategy, there’s real value in bringing in an expert when human dynamics are at stake — before the cost of avoidance becomes irreversible.

Nancy’s approach cuts to clarity without months of therapy or extended offsite retreats. Often, one small shift in how a leader frames a conversation or responds to conflict can unlock momentum for the entire team.

One Takeaway for Overwhelmed Leaders

If you’re stuck in a sticky people challenge right now, start here: name the gap, not the person. Shift the conversation from blame to behavior, and focus the team on what outcome you’re all actually trying to reach. That one reframe can move a stuck partnership from silence to action.

To learn more or connect with Nancy Jonker, visit DaptaWise on LinkedIn.

Interested in estate and business planning support? Contact Thomas J. Perrone at tperrone@necgginc.com or call 203-530-6615. His book, “Unlocking Your Business’ DNA,” is available on Amazon — profits go to Veteran Groups.

One Big Beautiful Bill

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

This video will give you a good idea of the “One Big Beautiful Bill”, and the strategies that can be employed for the long-term planning

The Trump Administration made life much easier in preserving legacy  for everyone.

If you wish to discuss any of this with me, please use my calendar link

Overview of the BBB and Planning Options and Strategies!

For Advisors and For Business Owners to Utilize. 

Tom covers some of the major areas of the bill, emphasizing income tax reduction and estate exclusion and estate shifting.  He urges estate owners to do planning now  and avoid delaying because although the BBB is now law, it can be changed by congress in the future.  Use it while you have it!

 

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Case Study: Rapid Sales Growth and Ownership

Case Example Using Term Insurance

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

This was a situation where the company needed protection but wasn’t ready to purchase permanent insurance, even though the situation called for it.  However, the term insurance gave them what they wanted at the time and gave them the needed protection. 

Scenario: 

 A thriving business, comprising three partners—a relationship builder, an idea generator, and a product engineer—experienced remarkable sales growth within a few years. However, a potential challenge arose regarding ownership transfer upon a partner’s death, as all partners shared familial ties. 


To mitigate this concern, a comprehensive stock redemption program was devised and funded through a term insurance policy with a premium exceeding $60,000. This strategic approach enabled the business to navigate ownership transfer complexities and ensure the continuity of its operations.

Through the years, parts of the term insurance has been converted, and the company is paying about $125,000 in insurance premium to fund their liabilities and commitment.  

The case was developed through a relationship i had with one of the owners, through an introduction.  

Lesson:  

Even though this was a start up and a young company, if I has assumed it did not have the cash flow, I would have lost out on all the great potential.  Don’t assume anything, but let your client tell you what they want and why. 

THE WHY: 

There was a past history of the one of the current partners where their family member was part of a company where the partner died.  No planning was done, so the deceased partners family became the new partners.  This was not pretty, and the business ended up in chaos.  Obviously, a motivating factor for the current owner to have a good Buy and Sell Agreement where it was funded 

If you are an advisor who is working with business owners or wants to develop a business market segment in your practice, we should talk. We offer great opportunities working with our organization and deep backup.  

Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

tperrone@necgginc.com

WHY A BUY AND SELL AGREEMENT FOR AN S CORPORATION IS NECESSARY! 

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC 

A Buy and Sell Agreement for an S Corporation needs special designs.  

Key Point on Redemption of S Corporation 

  • Special tax needs 
  • Financial security 
  • Triggers that transfer the S corporation 
  • Conflicts 

Also, a proper buy and sell agreement can do the following:  

  • Avoid a fire sale 
  • Create stability for employees and creditor/vendors 
  • Avoid termination of the S corporation status 
  • Avoid costly litigation 
  • Create a market 

This video explains why a proper BSA is needed. It covers many areas when the company has selected S corporation status.  

Summary 

A properly designed buy and sell agreement (BSA) is essential for S Corporations due to unique tax concerns. It is important for financial security. Triggering events can transfer ownership and cause potential conflicts. Such an agreement helps prevent fire sales. It ensures stability for employees and creditors. It also protects S Corporation status. Additionally, it avoids costly legal disputes and creates a market for shares. The document highlights the importance of addressing these areas to keep smooth business operations.