The Asset Gap: The Silent Threat to Your Exit Plan

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC (Excepts from John Brown’s “The Definitive Guide To Addressing The Asset Gap. (Thank you John)

Why the number in your head may have nothing to do with the number you actually need — and how to find out before it’s too late to fix.

The Asset Gap: The Silent Threat to Your Exit Plan

Most business owners believe they know two numbers cold: what their business is worth, and what they’ll need to live on once they sell it. Those two beliefs quietly shape every decision an owner makes about timing an exit, negotiating a deal, and walking away with peace of mind. The uncomfortable truth is that for the vast majority of owners, at least one of those numbers is wrong — and the gap between belief and reality has a name: the Asset Gap.

What Is an Asset Gap, Really?

The Asset Gap is simply the difference between what a business owner currently has and what that owner actually needs to exit the business on his or her own terms. It sounds like a straightforward math problem. In practice, almost no owner has done the math.

Every real Gap Analysis asks five questions:

  • Is your financial security goal accurate, or unrealistically low?
  • Have you accurately quantified the resources available to you today?
  • Do you have an Asset Gap — a shortfall between what you have and what you need?
  • How big is that gap?
  • What must you do to close it?

Here is the number that should stop every owner in their tracks: only 18% of business owners have ever discussed their exit with an Exit Planning Advisor. The other 82% are running their most important financial decision on assumptions, sentiment, and hope — often until it is too late to do anything about it.

The Misperception Spell

John H. Brown, founder of the Business Enterprise Institute, gave this problem a name: the Misperception Spell. It describes what happens when the information an owner is using to plan an exit is vastly different from the facts. Six assumptions feed the spell most often:

  • The amount of income they’ll need after they exit
  • How long they and their spouse will live
  • The rate of return they expect on invested assets
  • The value they assign to their company
  • The growth rate they predict for value and cash flow
  • The net proceeds they expect from a sale

The Misperception Spell isn’t a character flaw — it’s just what happens when nobody has run the numbers.

Francis: A Gap Analysis in Action

Consider Francis, a business owner who was confident he had no Asset Gap at all. When his numbers were finally tested against the facts, the picture changed dramatically.

What Francis TrackedHis AssumptionThe Facts (After Gap Analysis)
Business value$1.5 million$1 million (appraised, pre-tax)
Post-exit income needed$120,000 / year$200,000 / year (pre-tax)
Years of retirement funded25 years33 years (life expectancy)
Withdrawal / return rate7%4%
Investable assets needed~$2 million$4.5–5 million

The result: a real Asset Gap of $2 to $3 million — not the $0 gap Francis believed he had. Every one of his assumptions was reasonable. Every one of them was also incomplete or optimistic in a way that, left unchecked, would have surfaced only after he could no longer fix it.

The Asset Gap as a Map

Every client’s journey toward a successful exit has four elements, and they answer four simple questions: Where are you? Where are you going? What’s the distance? How do you get there?

  • A Starting Point — business value (after tax), non-business investments, and expected Social Security.
  • A Destination — the investable assets needed, based on life expectancy and spending needs.
  • The Distance — the dollar gap between what an owner has today and what the goal requires.
  • The Map — a step-by-step plan, built with the owner’s Advisor Team, to close the gap by the exit date.

A Small Investment Buys Real Facts

Francis’s full Gap Analysis — a business appraisal, a CPA review, and a financial planning assessment — cost him $5,000. Professional valuations of this kind typically run $5,000 to $10,000: a modest price next to the cost of building an entire Exit Plan on guesses.

A real Gap Analysis pays off in five ways. It:

  • Clears misperceptions before they sabotage the Exit Plan
  • Keeps owners in control of their business and their timeline
  • Replaces assumptions with facts the whole Advisor Team can use
  • Puts the upfront cost in context against the far greater cost of guessing wrong
  • Motivates owners to act sooner, while there is still time to close the gap

Be the Exception

Most owners discover the true size of their Asset Gap only when they are ready to exit — the one moment when it is hardest, and sometimes impossible, to do anything about it. You do not have to be one of them.

Review the five Gap Analysis questions early, and revisit them often. Replace sentiment and hope with facts from a real Advisor Team. Give yourself the best chance to exit when you want, for the money you need, to the person you choose.

Ready to Find Your Number?

If you have never had your own Asset Gap quantified, now is the time — not the year you plan to walk away. Take the three-minute Business Owner Viewpoint Survey to get your own “Where You Are” report, or reach out directly to start a conversation about your Gap Analysis.

Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

President & Founder, New England Consulting Group of Guilford, Inc.

203.530.6615 | tperrone@necgginc.com

Source contribution: John Brown and the Business Enterprise Institute, Exit Planning Series.

Performance Management for Small Businesses: 5 Things Every Owner Needs to Know

From the Building and Protecting Your Business Worth Broadcast | Guest: Ken Somers

By: Thomas J. Perrone, CLU,CIC

Running a small business means wearing every hat — but one role too many owners neglect is that of a true people manager. On a recent episode of the Building and Protecting Your Business Worth Broadcast, hosted by Thomas J. Perrone of New England Consulting Group of Guilford, guest Ken Somers broke down five critical areas where small businesses can’t afford to fall behind.

1. Performance Management Isn’t Just for Big Companies

Even the smallest teams need structure around performance. Without clear expectations, feedback loops, and accountability, small businesses often lose their best people — or keep their worst ones too long. Performance management doesn’t have to be bureaucratic. Done right, it creates clarity, motivation, and a culture where people actually want to show up and do their best work.

2. Management Succession: Plan Before You Have To

Most small business owners have never thought about what happens if they step away — suddenly or by choice. A basic management succession plan doesn’t require an HR department. It starts with identifying who on your team could step up, what gaps exist, and how you’d develop them over time. Waiting until a crisis hits is the most expensive way to learn this lesson.

3. Rising Healthcare Costs? There Are Smarter Options

Medical insurance is one of the fastest-growing costs for small business owners, and many are still using outdated group plan structures. Two alternatives worth exploring: ICHRA (Individual Coverage Health Reimbursement Arrangement) and QSEHRA (Qualified Small Employer HRA). Both allow employers to reimburse employees for individual health insurance, giving owners cost control and employees more flexibility — without the volatility of traditional group premiums.

4. Every Leader Needs a Coach

Small business owners tend to go it alone. But the most effective leaders — at every level — have coaches. Whether it’s a business coach, executive coach, or peer advisory group, outside perspective helps leaders see blind spots, make better decisions faster, and avoid the isolation that comes with being at the top. If you want your leadership team to grow, coaching isn’t a luxury — it’s infrastructure.

5. Culture: Why It Matters More Than You Think

Culture in a small business isn’t a ping-pong table or a mission statement on the wall. It’s the set of unwritten rules that determine how your team behaves when you’re not in the room. A strong culture attracts better talent, reduces turnover, and makes your business more resilient. Ignoring it doesn’t mean you don’t have one — it just means someone else is defining it for you.

Questions or comments from the broadcast? Reach out to Thomas J. Perrone directly at tperrone@necgginc.com. His book, “Unlocking Your Business’ DNA,” is available on Amazon in paperback and Kindle — with profits going to Veteran Groups.

ken@somershrsolutions.com

(508) 507-1207

Case Study: Rapid Sales Growth and Ownership

Case Example Using Term Insurance

By Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

This was a situation where the company needed protection but wasn’t ready to purchase permanent insurance, even though the situation called for it.  However, the term insurance gave them what they wanted at the time and gave them the needed protection. 

Scenario: 

 A thriving business, comprising three partners—a relationship builder, an idea generator, and a product engineer—experienced remarkable sales growth within a few years. However, a potential challenge arose regarding ownership transfer upon a partner’s death, as all partners shared familial ties. 


To mitigate this concern, a comprehensive stock redemption program was devised and funded through a term insurance policy with a premium exceeding $60,000. This strategic approach enabled the business to navigate ownership transfer complexities and ensure the continuity of its operations.

Through the years, parts of the term insurance has been converted, and the company is paying about $125,000 in insurance premium to fund their liabilities and commitment.  

The case was developed through a relationship i had with one of the owners, through an introduction.  

Lesson:  

Even though this was a start up and a young company, if I has assumed it did not have the cash flow, I would have lost out on all the great potential.  Don’t assume anything, but let your client tell you what they want and why. 

THE WHY: 

There was a past history of the one of the current partners where their family member was part of a company where the partner died.  No planning was done, so the deceased partners family became the new partners.  This was not pretty, and the business ended up in chaos.  Obviously, a motivating factor for the current owner to have a good Buy and Sell Agreement where it was funded 

If you are an advisor who is working with business owners or wants to develop a business market segment in your practice, we should talk. We offer great opportunities working with our organization and deep backup.  

Thomas J. Perrone, CLU, CIC

tperrone@necgginc.com